Once upon a time, In a small town where everyone knew each other, People frequently discussed the topic of intelligence. “Is it just about getting high scores on a test?” wondered a young man, thinking about the words of the famous scientist Stephen Hawking.
At the town’s favorite gathering spot, under the shade of an old tree, a wise sage sat. He often shared tales and wisdom with those who’d listen. Today, he said, “Intelligence isn’t just a number. He continued, “There are people who see patterns and connections that others might miss. They think deeply, question, and create new paths.”
The wise sage added with a twinkle in his eye, “But remember, every intelligent person has their own set of challenges. It’s not always easy being bright and intelligent among many others.”
Let’s look at 7 struggles ONLY highly intelligent people will understand.
- you’re socially awkward. Ever notice in movies how the super-smart character sometimes misses the mark in social situations? It’s not just a film thing. While some brainy folks are great with facts and figures, they might find it a tad trickier navigating the world of small talk or catching onto emotional vibes. Those who score high in traditional intelligence might not always have the same knack in emotional understanding. Just goes to show, we all have our unique strengths and areas to grow!
- you struggle to make good friends. Is finding genuine friends and your ideal social circle a challenge for you? Some people feel intimidated by those they perceive as highly intelligent, thinking they might not be on the same intellectual level. These feelings often deter them from establishing a connection. However, it’s crucial to remember that a highly intelligent person has the same emotional needs as everyone else. If you ever feel that your intelligence might be distancing others, resist the urge to downplay your abilities for acceptance. Instead, seek those who appreciate and understand you. Such individuals might be rare, but they are out there.
- You’re Expectations of Always Being Right. There’s a common misconception that highly intelligent people should always have the right answers. When they make mistakes or admit not knowing something, others may react with surprise or even doubt. This pressure to constantly maintain a facade of infallibility can be exhausting and can prevent them from seeking help when they truly need it. Moreover, this can lead to a fear of taking risks or exploring new areas of knowledge, hindering their potential for growth and innovation.
- You’re Emotional challenges due to overthinking. Their propensity to analyze can extend to their own emotions and the actions of those around them. This can lead to challenges like overthinking interactions, self-doubt, or misinterpreting others’ intentions due to over-analysis. Additionally, this level of introspection can sometimes create barriers in forming genuine connections, as they may hesitate to express feelings authentically for fear of misjudgment.
- you’re always feeling pressured to succeed. When you’re known for being intelligent, there’s often an unspoken expectation that you’ll always succeed. Many people, from friends to coworkers, might playfully comment on your achievements, expecting you to always be at the top of your game. These comments, though well-intentioned, can sometimes reinforce the pressure to constantly perform at a high level. This can lead to striving for perfection and a heightened fear of making mistakes.
- You have difficulty expressing thoughts to others. Their depth of understanding and multi-dimensional thinking can sometimes make it hard for them to communicate their thoughts in a way that others can easily grasp. This can lead to frustrations when trying to convey ideas or work collaboratively. Often, they find themselves simplifying or omitting nuances to make their points more digestible, potentially sacrificing the richness of their insights in the process.
- You’re Overwhelm due to hyper-awareness. The more intelligent a person is, the more they are aware of the intricacies and complexities of the world around them. This heightened awareness can often lead to feelings of overwhelm or even anxiety as they perceive and process more layers of information than most. The depth of their insights can sometimes make it challenging for them to relate to others who might not share the same depth of understanding, leading to potential feelings of isolation or disconnect.
Through these lessons from a wise sage, People learned that possessing high intelligence can be both a gift and a challenge. While it offers deeper understanding and insights, it can also lead to social awkwardness, difficulties in forming close friendships, and the burden of always being expected to be right. Overthinking and heightened self-awareness can create emotional hurdles and communication barriers. Furthermore, the pressure to consistently excel and meet high expectations can be overwhelming, leading to feelings of isolation or disconnect.
Did any of the struggles in this video sound familiar to you? Share your thoughts in the comments! Knowing more than others can feel good sometimes, but being smart isn’t always easy. Some people might only see you for how smart you are and not who you are as a person. They might keep their distance or even act jealous. This can make you feel lonely, feeling disconnected or misunderstood. But always remember: you’re perfect just as you are. In the end, others don’t validate or create who you are, only YOU do. You define yourself, not others.